Ignorance???

People can say the dumbest things.  I told one of my good GFs about my recent m/c.  Her initial comment was "its just not your time".  Really??? What does that mean?  Was it your time when you were pregnant and had an abortion? Or maybe it was your time when you decided to have your unplanned children because you did not want to have any more abortions.  It's easy for those that can "choose" their time to say stuff like that.  Or even with ART, and ppl say...well it wasn't meant to be, and the process is unnatural.  Was it meant for Jeffrey Dommer to be born so he can be a psychopath?  What about the children who are abused and raped, and cut up, and placed in the freezer, or the crack heads that repeatedly have babies, or the overcrowded foster care/jail system...What was their purpose?  Was  that destined by God?  Get the phuck outta here with that bull-ish....